Posted by: Anji | January 23, 2010

Now Gytha’s sick too… :o(

Fred had noticed one of the rats had been bleeding for a couple of days but we couldn’t catch which one of them it was. Today he said it was Gytha, and sure enough she was bleeding – from her genitals.

So, off we went to the vet (the £31 it cost today takes it up to £187 I’ve spent on rat care in a single week) who declared her very old (which I knew) and anaemic (which I didn’t know) and said she either has pyometra or a uterine tumour. We’re hoping it’s the former.

Because she’s too old to safely spay, he gave me Synulox tablets (cat antibiotics) to try with her (apparently they’re better for this sort of thing than the usual Baytril). She’s to have a quarter of a tablet twice a day. He also said that in many cases, this would be the point at which euthanasia would be considered because he’s not optimistic about the treatment working, and he thinks she will only go downhill from here. He gave me the choice though and I, perhaps selfishly, chose to attempt treatment before going down that route.

One thing I will say is that I can’t express how happy I am to finally be registered with a veterinary surgery where the vets are willing to try new things and give me options rather than just throwing Baytril at me. The guy today did the most thorough examination I’ve ever seen a vet give a rat, and was obviously thinking outside of the box with treatment options – he mentioned a couple more but I can’t remember them now.

The sad thing is that now Gytha seems to be on her way out (and I never thought she would outlive her sister by long, they did everything together) I’m going to need to start looking for a new home for Rosie for when Gytha goes to the Bridge, as we’re not planning on getting any more ratties for a good while and I don’t want Rosie living alone. So if you’re a local rat person, expect to hear from me soon, probably via Facebook.

Fingers and toes crossed that it is pyometra and not a tumour because if it’s pyo, we have a chance of treating it and beating it. If it’s a tumour, there’s no getting better and I’ll lose her a lot sooner than I’d like.

I’m off to give her her first dose now in a little Nurish Um or ‘ratty crack’ as it’s known in this house. If you believe in that sort of thing, please send good vibes/prayers/thoughts for Gytha. I’m not sure I can cope with losing two in such a short time.

Posted by: Anji | January 20, 2010

Esme ‘Granny’ Weatherwax

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Esme “Granny” Weatherwax (unknown-20/01/2010)

Jenny noticed on Saturday morning that Esme was tilting to the side and limping with both right legs, and I feared she was having a stroke. So we took her to the vet, who theorised that she either had a bad infection or a tumour and his wager was on the latter. He gave her a steroid shot and a course of antibiotics to come home with. The next day she seemed a lot perkier; she was still a little lopsided but seemed to be happily limping around to the water and food and snuggling with her cage mates.

Today when I went to give her her antibiotics, she was laying on her side and I immediately thought she had died. I picked her up and she was still warm and breathing, but obviously dying. I held her for an hour and a half and she hung on and hung on, so I put her in the hammock with her sister Gytha and did the things around the house that I needed to do. By eight thirty she was still breathing shallowly, and I realised it was going to take her a long, long time to die by herself and that the kindest thing would be euthanasia.

So I took her to the emergency vet, using my dentist money from Fredrik to do so, because her comfort is a lot more important than my teeth, and the vet was utterly lovely with her, scritching her and cuddling her in her last moments. I said goodbye and she was taken away to be put to sleep.

Esme was a little nutty in her old age, and she and Rosie used to battle about their bedding – Rosie would spend hours painstakingly pulling it all into the hammocks and igloos, and then Esme would come along and pull it all out again. I don’t know if she didn’t like being too warm or whether she was just doing it to tease Rosie. She would always come running at the rustle of the yoggie bag and would happily sit in a hood for hours (as was evidenced at last year’s Portsmouth NFRS show!). She was adorable in both appearance and nature, and she will be sorely missed.

Run free at the Bridge, little one, free of pain and full of happiness and love.

Posted by: Anji | January 18, 2010

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Posted by: Anji | December 20, 2009

Orion Meets Father Christmas

Ginge and I took Orion to meet Father Christmas at Gunwharf Quays on Wednesday just gone. Orion didn’t know he was going to meet him, and his face was priceless. Father Christmas even invited Orion to pull on his beard to prove that it was real.

Orion Meets Father Christmas

Orion Meets Father Christmas

Orion Meets Father Christmas

Last night Father Christmas visited our house! For those who don’t know, I celebrate Yule rather than Christmas as I’m Pagan rather than Christian. This works out pretty well regarding Orion because his dad does Christmas, so we never fight over “who gets to have him for the holiday” as they’re on different dates. Technically Yule is on the 21st (tomorrow) but I’m running on the theory that the Solstice lasts from the 20th to the 22nd so it’s all right that we did it today.

Orion and I put his letter to Father Christmas on top of the television by the tree last night, along with a glass of milk for him to drink as we were sure he’d be thirsty after such a long journey. This morning, the letter was gone and the glass empty – “he’s definitely been!” :D Orion loved all his presents, some of which were marked from me and Fred and some from the big man himself. Ginge came round early too, and gave Orion some more presents, which of course Orion fell in love with because they came from Uncle Ginge.

After presents I got started with the dinner – Quorn roast for me and Orion, roast chicken for Fred and Ginge, vegetables, roast potatoes, stuffing and Yorkshire puddings, all topped off with gravy. Though I do say so myself, the roast potatoes were perfect; I was very proud of them. I’m also very pleased that I managed to get everything done at pretty much the same time, which if you’ve seen my tiny oven is quite a feat!

Unfortunately I burned my fingers trying to move a pan of stuffing that had just come out of the oven (I’d already forgotten I’d just taken it out) but I ran them under a cold tap and Ginge had me put cling film on them. I don’t know how it works or if it’s just a placebo kind of thing, but the cling film seems to really be soothing it.

This afternoon Orion’s dad picked him up (his mum wants to take him out to buy an ornament for the tree and apparently it has to be done today) and our friend Claire is coming over to visit – Ginge is just off collecting her now actually. Looking forward to seeing her as I haven’t done for a very long time!

On the 24th Orion’s dad is picking him up at 10am and we’ll pick him up from his grandma’s at 7pm the next day. To me that’s too late, but apparently they’re not eating their Christmas dinner until about six so it’ll have to do.

Fredrik, bless him, is doing the washing up at the moment – I was going to do it but I don’t think my burned fingers would like the hot water much so he’s taken over. And here are Ginge and Claire so I’d better go!

Posted by: Anji | December 10, 2009

Hand Paintin’

I’m really proud of myself for not killing Orion just now.

He’s been really, really good all day. Then I gave him cauliflower cheese for his dinner and left him with it on a tray in the living room. Half an hour later he came in to the dining room covered head to toe with cauliflower cheese, dripping it all over the carpet. I very calmly asked “What have you been doing, Orion?” He replied with a sweet smile “I been hand paintin’!” I cleaned him up as best I could, took off his jumper (which was coated) and went into the living room. Carnage. It was all over the sofa, and I mean ALL over.

I managed to calmly say “I’m very cross with you, Orion. This was a really naughty thing to do!” while scooping as much off the sofa and back into the bowl as I could. Fred is going to get our magic carpet/upholstery cleaning machine out for me in a minute so I can clean it properly.

I’ve been trying extra hard not to lose my shit with him for the past few days – a “new me” as it were – and I’m really proud of dealing with it the way I did. Needless to say though, he’s not playing on the computer or watching monster truck videos tonight. :P

Posted by: Anji | September 29, 2009

Orion’s Formal Developmental Check Up

Orion’s dad and I took him to his Formal Developmental Check-up this morning. It took about two hours of ‘tests’ where they got him to do different things with toys and talked to us about the things he’s able to do. He was ever so good and tried really hard to do all the things they asked him to, even when he was finding them difficult.

He is 48.7 months old. With his speech & language and cognitive skills, he is ‘aged’ 53 months. With his fine motor skills, gross motor skills and personal/social skills (dressing, personal hygiene etc) he is ‘aged’ 36 months – so a whole year developmentally delayed in those areas.

The last FDC he had was when he was two years and three months old, and he was only delayed in those three areas by five months then. Apparently for the delay to increase is common, as they’re expected to be able to do much more as they get older.

So it’s pretty much as I suspected – he’s substantially delayed physically and a bit advanced cognitively. I also mentioned his little drooling problem – he dribbles sometimes, not enough to wet his t-shirt or anything but enough to notice it on his chin. She said that’s pretty normal with hemiparesis and to put a tissue or hankie in his pocket and get him into the habit of wiping his mouth. There are medications available for it, but like I said at the moment it’s not a huge problem and a hankie will sort it.

I also talked to the doctor conducting the assessment about getting Orion statemented – a Statement of Special Needs which would be given to the school and would ensure he got the help he needs, and probably even a helper assigned to him. She agreed that he would need to be statemented and said she’d referred him for an educational assessment over a year ago. She’s going to chase it up today, so we can get it done with plenty of time before he starts school.

So that was the check-up, he enjoyed it, it went very well and now we know exactly where he is and what he needs help with. He has an appointment with his Occupational Therapist next Wednesday, and is seeing the Physiotherapist for a check of his ‘magic glove’ next week as well, as we think the thumb part might be a little too tight. Aside from that, I think that’s it!

Posted by: Anji | September 24, 2009

School, new bedroom and random babble.

Four or five days ago I stopped drinking tea after 6pm. I had a feeling that the reason I wasn’t getting to sleep at night might be something to do with my caffeine intake. Sure enough, I’m getting to sleep much, much quicker now. I’ve switched to Galaxy hot chocolate in the evenings instead, which is hot and tasty and helps me feel sleepy. The flip side of this is that now I’m letting my body tell me when it’s tired, I’m feeling sleepy by eight or nine o’clock. I can’t go to bed at that time because if I have more than eight or nine hours sleep I feel just as rubbish as when I’ve had less than eight or nine hours.

On Wednesday Orion’s dad came round and we went to visit the first of the three schools we are considering sending Orion to. It was really nice – small, modern (‘interactive white boards’? Never had those when I was at school!), airy and generally a good atmosphere. It sounds like Orion’s ’special needs’ would be catered to very well there. The only problem I have is that they do ‘collective worship’ (despite ostensibly being a community, i.e. non-religious, school) which the prospectus says along with its Religious Education is ‘mostly Christian’. This bothers me. We saw the second school today and again it seemed very nice – I’m not sure I liked it as much as the first one (though it had all the same mod-cons etc), but it had the bonus of its assemblies being ‘non-denominational’ and having a much larger building. We’re seeing the third school on the first of October.

I’ve spent much of the week cleaning/maintaining the house. I think Fredrik going to work has really given me some motivation. The house is now clean and tidy from top to bottom and I’ve been maintaining that pretty easily. It probably helps that my dad came over at the weekend to help us switch the bedrooms around, which meant a lot of shit got sorted out and/or thrown away, and I got to give the rooms a good clean including where all the furniture had been. Orion is thoroughly enamoured with his new bedroom – though it’s smaller, his stuff ‘fits’ better without all the open spaces of his old room, and he looks a lot less lost in there.

My dad came yesterday to measure where Fred’s remaining boxes are (he still has a lot of stuff packed in boxes as there’s been nowhere to put it). Dad’s going to buy/build a set of cabinets to go in the space at the end of the upstairs corridor, and another one for where Fred’s boxes are in the bedroom. This has a double bonus – there won’t be piles of untidy boxes around (as either the full boxes or the stuff from the boxes can be put in the cabinets) but also my dad is going to make the one for the bedroom at exactly the right height so I can have a permanent altar up again. :D

And finally, I phoned St Vincent College today. I’ve been planning for a year or two to go back to college in September 2010 (the year Orion will start school) and have settled on a preliminary line-up of Physics, Mathematics, Philosophy and English Language & Literature. I had a bit of a heart attack when I phoned though; full-time adult education there used to be free as far as I knew, but the woman on the phone told me it was now £440 per course per year.

I phoned again half an hour later to find out if there were subsidies for people on benefits – apparently not for Incapacity Benefit, only the means tested ones. However the bloke on the phone told me that if I was going to be between 18 and 25 when the course started (which I will) and I don’t have A levels already (I don’t, only AS levels) then I would be exempt from fees as it would count as something called “first full level three”. I’m going to phone again tomorrow to check that my AS levels won’t be a problem there, as some websites are giving me conflicting information about whether my AS levels will preclude me from claiming fee-free tuition under these rules.

It’s only quarter past nine but I’m shattered and the laundry and washing up are already done so I’m going to get myself into bed. Tomorrow Jenny is coming over, and Ginge is going to come in the afternoon to pick Orion up with me and possibly go to the park. I’m hoping I’ll have the spoons to deal with all that, so sleep is what I need right now to give myself a fighting chance!

Posted by: Anji | September 21, 2009

Photo dump – Orion at the park today. :D

I took Orion to the park on the way back from preschool today, and we played and then on the way home we made a big pile of crunchy leaves to jump in. We got some very strange looks (well he didn’t, but I did). Anyway, here are some photographs of Orion having fun today. None of him jumping in leaves I’m afraid, I’d put the camera away by then.

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

At The Park

Posted by: Anji | September 14, 2009

Fourth Carnival of Feminist Parenting

Just a heads-up that the fourth Carnival of Feminist Parenting is now UP at Mothers For Women’s Lib. There are some truly brilliant posts featured this month, so go and check it out.

Also, don’t forget to submit a post – or many posts! – for next month’s Carnival. You can submit your own post or one by someone else, so keep the Carnival in mind while you travel the blogosphere over the coming month. The fifth Carnival will be posted on Sunday 11th October 2009 and the submission deadline is Sunday 4th October. Submissions can be made at the carnival submission page.

Posted by: Anji | September 10, 2009

Orion Dancing

As requested by Ruth, a video of Orion dancing to Reel 2 Real’s “I Like To Move It”. :D

[vimeo http://vimeo.com/6523201]

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